This Blog OF Mine: Cross Roads

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Apr 7, 2007

Cross Roads

Wow great post!

I've always heard mid-life crisis, usually happens sometime when your in your forties. But don't hold me to it please. I really don't believe your taking a risk I think it's something you have to do. You said it yourself your feeling a change coming about I'm fifty three and I felt the same way exactly as you. So much that I thought I was reading something I wrote several years ago. Your kids are going to be fine young men I can see that just from reading your blog.

How do you hold on to your pride and dignity ? My opinion and only My opinion is by letting go. I once wasn't ready for a change by losing my wife through divorce . I begged, pleaded, I called, I wrote, boy did I ever write. But by doing all of the things I mentioned didn't and couldn't help me hold on. I finally realised When or If somebody doesn't want to be with you or doesn't love you what ever the case may be He or She won't be with you No matter what you due.

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